GSommer98!!
Congratulations on your new baby!
First I would suggest you change your handle from your email address to something else. Unfortunately, there are people in this world (I doubt any are members of this group but more likely they might scrape email addresses using a bot) who collect email addresses so they can spam you with a lot of crap you won’t want. Most of us spell out email addresses for this reason. It’s probably a low probability but better to be safe than sorry. If you do that, you’ll probably want to delete your post and post it again.
As to your problem, if your bypass wire did not get hot, there iis probably a short in that wire. If your bypass wire got hot too, then your solenoid is probably going out and has increased resistance.