There is not a member of this forum reading your journey that does not feel your pain - believe me, I, we. them, they, have all been there.
Taking a break is a good move - spend some time reading up on the drive shaft oil seal challenge - it is very well documented on previous threads and it is not overly complicated - the fact that you have already invested in the correct tool for adjusting the seal carriers is a big bonus but please note that those seal carriers also control the pinion/crown wheel backlash along with the preload on the main diff bearings and to set those correctly, (ASSUMING THEY ARE NOT ALREADY CORRECTLY SET), will involve removal of the gearbox and bellhousing. In other words, before you do anything with the seal carriers, please mark exactly where they are now.
You will also be entering the equally well discussed and documented subject of drive shaft shims and roll pins -
Have fun.