I understand your fear of burning thru, been there done that. if your having problems removing product , your either putting on to much or your not working it in. The abc's mentioned paint , and left it there . that's where you have to start. Having a clean, flat surface is what to aim for. I have documented the use of a glaze, once put on it is difficult to cut thru to correct the scratches that are confused with dulling, the terry cloths also scratch the paint. don't go directly from a compound to a wax . Follow the steps that autogeek documented. another step autogeeks left out is the stages of foam pads . the colors mean something as far as what step to use them , if not used correctly they will dull the finish. Once again my 2 cents.
Dakazman