Well thanks everyone for the great responses.
I will attempt to respond to all of you at the same time.
Yes, replacement frames are pricey, good used ones are less pricey but still a lot, and I'm on a budget with another Lotus and other fun activities to spend on. The car came with a spare 365 frame, which is also bent and rusty. My partner in this project (who was the passenger in the bending incident) found a chassis, body, roll bar and other stuff on eBay in NJ. By the time the stuff arrived here with the winning bid and shipping, the cost was 2/3 the way to a new frame. Turned out, that one was rusty AND also bent. Not my bad. The one on the car, though bent, was nicely fresh and corrosion-wise. I have been making progress with clamps and thick steel bars to straighten the right outrigger, WITHOUT using heat.
All your suggestions are good ones relating to measuring the good side vs. the bad. I have purchased a 1.25" steel tube of the same thickness as the original, and borrowed a pipe bender, filled the tube with sand and started bending the thing but stopped short of what looks like the correct angle and radius.
NOW, what I need from any of you nice folks, is a favor to measure the transaxle hoop distance from the top of the outriggers to the top of the "V" in the center on a 352 4 speed frame. AND the distance between the outriggers. These dimension are crucial to keep the original geometry and the "magical" Lotus handling. Once I have this, I can proceed with the rest of the repairs. I plan on using small gussets and plates in 16ga. sheet to reinforce the area without going crazy overkill.
I much all your responses.