This is a really old thread but I'm posting to it for a couple of reasons.
First, I want to warn anybody who might be using MY experiences up till now in this thread to help them sort out their handling that my experiences are not likely to be very useful since I had been dealing with bad shocks the entire time. This became obvious to me when I installed a set of Protech shocks. I expect that posted documents and other people's experience might be useful.
Second, since I am finally using good shocks, I'll be experimenting with them (and probably also spring changes) and someone may find my experiences useful.
To bring those who are interested/curious/not bored yet, let me bring you up to date. My TCS is running 250# front springs and 130# rear springs. I have only the stock front anti roll bar (~3/4"). A couple of posts ago, I mentioned that my front end bearings were a little loose. That's been fixed. I've been experimenting a bit with different shocks settings. Protech advised that I start with setting about 1/2 stiffness. There are 13 clicks of adjustment so I set them all to 7 clicks. The interesting thing to me is that they didn't ask me what my spring rates were! That felt pretty good but the rear felt like it wanted to swing out on sweepers. Twisty roads were no problem, in fact they were great! A twisty section that I could do at about 60 mph holding on for dear life was now fun! I haven't been able to get faster than 60 but that was because I chickened out. It was A LOT more stable. The other thing is that I felt the highway stability could be improved a bit.
Remembering that the Spax tech guy suggested making changes two clicks at a time until you needed fine adjustments, I stiffened the front and rear by two clicks - to nine clicks. I wouldn't call the ride rough but it was very bouncy. I think that was because I may not have hit any real bumps but I felt every undulation in the road. It was not very comfortable. It handled the twisty bits about the same and the highway stability was maybe a little better.
I went down to eight clicks in the front and seven in the rear. The twisty stuff was still about as good and the highway stability was pretty good but it still felt like it was trying to swap ends in the sweepers. It might have been a little better. (note: at one point I inadvertently set one rear to six clicks with the other at 7. This made for some odd highway feelings!)
That's where I am now. It handles twisty stuff and a pretty tight clover-leaf really well. It feels a little loose in a sweeper (my sweeper is an on ramp and I wonder if it might be a bit off camber...). Highway stability is pretty good. I would feel comfortable driving it under just about every condition I'm likely to have but I feel the highway stability could be improved. I don't believe this is alignment (see attached last alignment printout). For whatever reason I am "light" on the caster on the passenger side - maybe a bent upright? Maybe that might contribute to some instability. In any case, my memory was that when I was young and stupider and my car was new, on a road trip I drove 90 mph all day with little effort. Now driving 80 for a little while requires a little effort so I think there is some improvement to be had there.