I originally had a guy who does a lot of aircraft avionics and electronics to rebuild my alternator. He said had to make some part and said he got a bit more out of it than it was supposed to give (sorry I don't know the details). It was ridiculously expensive and if I knew it was going to cost so much, I would have told him to forget it. At one point, I suspected the VR (this may not be in chronological order - it was several years ago!) and found one for the US version which has the connectors on the side rather than the back. For some reason, I didn't think I could adapt it.
Well, I found it this afternoon and it seemed straightforward enough (I don't know why I thought it was so difficult!) - just bend the lugs and add an extension! Simple. I'll check the voltage and if it's bad, I'll try my VR to see how it works. If I'm still SOL, then I'll go back to researching substitutions. There are several mentioned in the Yahoo group Knowledge Base.