Blue seals are the thinnest. Yes you can stack seals. Do not use silicone sealers as many of them react with coolant. I would recommend Hylomar Blue or Permatex Aviation Gasket Maker #3. Given the pressures involved, sealers add virtually nothing to spacer seal thickness. 0.006" is fine. 0.010" is too thick. If you have the liners protruding too far, then other parts of the gaskets won't seal properly. I check all four corners of each liner and make sure no part of the liner is under spec. I also fit liners reversed and tested again so I could get the best orientation.