Hi Frank,
The stance of your car doesn't look much different from mine, maybe a touch higher at the rear but the front wheelarch clearance looks very similar. Because my springs are different from standard (250F/140R) I can't be 100% certain it's not all down to the springs, but I can say that my car certainly isn't "spongy" and the damping feels quite firm. In fact even with the OEM springs and dampers I couldn't have called it a soft ride and it was always stable on motorways, which makes me start to look at other potential causes for the "loose tail/straight line stability" comment.
Assuming when you replaced the rear dampers all the bushes and links were in good order, then my first guess is rear tracking and/or rear wheel camber. From what I've read, having toe-out on these cars is a very bad idea and does give stability problems, so that would be my first port of call.
Also a slightly embarrassing admission - when I first put my car together and did the "round the block" run, due to my supreme confidence in my mechanical ability (
) I decided to extend the test run and speed. At 50-60mph on a straight section the car was bouncing all over.... not caused by the soft damper settings but the simple fact I hadn't tightened up the lower link properly. It emphasises the point about needing the rear end components in good order I suppose.
I will take some measurements from my car later today which might help to compare your car setup with others.
Brian